As a child I was raised by Super Woman. In my opinion any and every single mother is Super Woman in her own capacity, the little that I know of my bio-father was that he was a boozer bad boy partier. My mom made the best decision she could at the time and high tailed it out of that situation. Why? Because she had a dream.
A dream for her little girl that did not include a deadbeat dad and a volatile upbringing. You see - we all fulfill dreams all of the time without even recognizing it. With sheer passion and determination we turn dreams into reality.
Let's fast forward to my dating years - any guesses what type of boys I liked?? Ding Ding Ding! Boozer bad-boy partiers! SHOCKER right? There I was looking to fill the gaping hole in my heart that I didn't even know existed. After years of trying to fix the unfixable I had an a-ha moment. Duh. Fix myself. I started dreaming of a relationship that was healthy and loving and I needed to get to work on my action plan immediately. Operation fix myself immediately began.
Step by step I started to process why I was behaving in certain ways, why I was thinking one way and acting another, why I didn't even recognize myself. I was trying to find my father within these horrible relationships. The hardest part was looking inward and identifying the behaviors that had to change and then taking the steps to change them.
I am happy to say that it worked. The work I did on myself led me to a long lasting, loving and super healthy relationship with the man that I was dreaming of.
Do you have a dream of a better life or relationship?
Dream.Plan.Take Action.Get Results
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